Always go to the funeral. Always go to the hospital. You don't need to know what to say.
In times of profound crisis, people don't remember your words, they only remember whether you showed up for them at their lowest moment.
I hate the content creation era. Everybody recording themselves doing everything in life. Like my God can we get back to reality
Everything is not content
Your specific kink isn't random. Bondage, impact, humiliation, service: each one points to something your psyche needs to metabolize. The fetish is the symptom. The need is underneath.