forcing yourself to blame and hate someone you love at any cost makes it significantly easier to move on.
having to sit and reflect on yourself, your actions, and everything you did could lead to regret, take a toll on your mental, and is significantly harder to handle.
If both men and women only chase perfection, a lot of relationships probably wouldn’t survive. Real relationships usually work because people balance standards with grace, patience, loyalty, growth, and compromise.
Having standards isn’t the problem. Unrealistic expectations and double standards are.
A healthy relationship is less about:
“What can I get from this person?” and more about:
“Can we build, respect, and grow together?”
The truth is, most lasting couples aren’t two perfect people. They’re two imperfect people who consistently choose each other.