They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
How your partner reacts to things that make you sad or bother you should tell you ALL you need to know. People who care about you, care about how they make you feel. The end.
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
that "fed up" stage hits different. where nothing they say or do at that point can change your mind. you gain the strength & fight to want better, to want more. the thought of settling disgusts you & you're ready for the life you deserve. it's really everything
The husband, the kids, the house, the dogs running around, throwing family gatherings in my beautiful home twice a year ,dinner at the dinner table every night, movie night with my hubby & kids that’s the type of love and life I want, wholesomeness.. I know God gon do his thing