Sir, this is going to be a tough decision to make.
However, I will opt for option 1 bcus it's a total betrayal to me. I have come to realize something in life which is "we can love someone and not be with them due to some reasons which betrayal is part of them".
So, let's discuss.
And I really need men to think it through properly before responding.
You have been married for many years without a child, and you do not have the resources to either use a surrogate, adopt or do an IVF.
Your wife then steps out and got pregnant by another man.
You're in your late 40s and she's in her late 30s.
She then decides to confess to you that she's pregnant for another man's child and that the man is not aware of it.
You're about to make a key decision after discovering this secret and you have two options.
Option 1:
You ask for a divorce and move on with your life while your wife keeps the pregnancy because she needs a child of her own.
Option 2:
You forgive your wife, ask her to keep the pregnancy and "adopt" the child as yours and completely keep the biological father in the dark and continue with your marriage and raise the child as yours. This secret will remain with you and your wife forever.
What option are you MOST LIKELY to go with, and kindly state your reason for going with the option.
Before you respond, please do note that I do not pray that the situation becomes yours in reality, because every couple deserves to have their own biological children but life happens.
AJD.
If you get newly employed in a place that one staff must die every six months, are you resigning immediately?
If you don’t believe in the spiritual,what’s the logical explanation?
If you choose to stay & you see the pattern at play,what’s your next move?
Oh boy,
Why must it get to the stage of when your staffs resigned from their position before you start discussion on increasement of their salary.
It is unfair nah.