Bitter truth: no matter how good you are, how kind, how caring, or how generous you are, if you are in the wrong place, you will never be truly valued or appreciated. Effort and character matter, but they cannot create recognition where respect does not exist.
I used to love showcasing results from the different things I’m doing to motivate others and show that it’s possible for them also. But, what I’ve learnt over time is there are energies in this world and their only goal is to work against your wins to see you fail. This is why I’m a firm believer that until done tell none. It’s uncomfortable these days to show results. I pray to be at peace one day where it feels comfortable again. In the interim, I truly hope that someone has been motivated by my results over the years and have done something amazing with their life. My life path is completely different from everyone else’s. I understand this and operate as such. God is amazing. More wins and abundance. I’m forever blessed. Love ❤️
i hope,
you’re able to hold on to your light even in moments where the worlds vibrations push you into corners that make it hard for you to see yourself, i hope every time you choose you it sparks your intentions so you’re able to finally recognize yourself through the darkness.
i realize people don't really be too much of a loss... i really just got attachment issues 😭 my ego in the way, i don't be wanting to start over, i don't be wanting to feel like i lost, etc...
honor the friendships that hold patience for you while you’re healing, the ones that view your low phases as lessons you need to learn for the betterment of the connection, the ones comfortable with giving you as much time as you need while you slowly find you again.
I stopped. I stopped begging, chasing, & vying for love that was never meant for me. I stopped making excuses for people that had time & time again shown me exactly how they feel about me. I stopped sending long heartfelt paragraphs to people that had never really cared to respond. I stopped waiting on love from others & started cultivating love inside of me instead. It wasn’t easy. It wasn’t painless. & it wasn’t without loneliness or grief. But boy, was it necessary.
sometimes, you just have to filter out people who don’t view you as their cup of tea but still take sips of your energy. never confuse someone watering you out of comfort, convenience or circumstance as genuine reciprocation.