Sometimes “locking in” looks like sitting in the sun and remembering that your life is also meant to be lived, not just optimized, monetized, and turned into proof that you’re worthy.
A person doesn’t have to only drain you with arguments & fights. They can drain you with lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apologizing, lack of acknowledgment & lack of fulfilling your love language.
as u get older, u realize that you’re not always right & there’s so many things u could’ve handled differently, so many situations where u could’ve been nicer and all u can really do is forgive yourself & let ur mistakes make u a better person.