Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
a woman cannot be your peace if you are not creating the environment that allows her to be at peace with herself. you canโt continuously give her problems and instability, then expect her to become your place of comfort. peace can only exist where safety and security are present.
my daddy told me itโs 24hrs in a day & if a ngga canโt reach out during the first 12 then he donโt need to be around for the last ๐๐๐๐๐.
my main priority for next year is to take care of myself. i want to make sure i wake up every single day and choose me. make sure im looking and feeling good and keeping things in order no matter the circumstances ๐