people who are conflict avoidant really believe they're more mature than others. no you're a coward. and it's more than likely ruining your entire life.
@strawberriesbut People with zero real accountability don’t just wrong you they recruit a temporary jury of other unaccountable people to declare the wrongdoing imaginary. The gaslighting only works because their entire circle shares the same missing piece.
Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.