never force relationships or communication. if it's not mutual, then let it go. people know exactly what they're doing. if they wanted to match your energy, they would. start rewarding inconsistency with unavailability. allow them to lose you because of their lack of effort
in a relationship communication is key. getting mad at ur girl bc she’s expressing what upsets her is lame. instead of flipping the situation & blaming it on her, ask her where u went wrong and how u can fix it. even if it’s not that deep to you, it could be serious matter to her