Some of you young men will regret not seizing the opportunity that I have provided for you (for many years) to find your future wives.
If you have someone like me as a mentor to many single ladies, you should count yourself lucky.
And I don't just say it, I shoe you examples using my own marriage.
While I agree that not all marriages are the same, but you must know that a woman is a woman, and a man is a man.
Too many young ladies listen to me and look up to me, and many are afraid to disappoint me.
Taking undue advantage of them will do you no good.
You have seen too many examples of failed marriages or relationships, and the shege that young women are showing to men in this generation.
In a community like this where despite all I say about women and their antics, you still see many woman associating with the page, it should tell you something.
You'll never meet them perfect.
But to a large extent, any young lady that has been under my mentorship for years, will not be a total red flag.
You just need to mold her into your specific shape.
Masculinity is shrewd.
Femininity is malleable.
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As a man, If you fail to manage your scarce resources at earlier stage of your life, you will use your old age to pay the balance.
Don't forget to pay yourself first before paying anybody. You only have yourself.
Many of young men are broke today because you wasted your scarce resources on women.
Today, those women have left you to go be with other men.
Giving them the totos that you thought you were securing with money.
Don't even bother thinking that karma will fight for you.
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Sex in itself is not a sin. Don’t let anyone convince you that the act alone is automatically wrong.
What matters is the intention, the context, and the consequences.
If sex involves deception, betrayal, manipulation, coercion, or causes harm to another person, then the moral issue is not simply the sex itself but the choices surrounding it.
Every action should be judged not only by what was done, but also by why it was done and who was affected.
The real question is not, “Was there sex?” The real question is, “Was there honesty, respect, consent, and care for the other person?”🤷♂️
@jon_d_doe As I no get girlfriend like this, how i wan take marry.
Promise myself to be a responsible father in the future.
I'm also glad I came across agba page before I will get married because I have the counselling to manage a marriage now.
@jon_d_doe You can't breach the rule without facing the consequences. It's better for a man to manage his scarce resources well because women get multiple choice and they don't pity man when making their choice.
The less you say, The more you understand.
The less you speak, The more your words matter.
The less you consume, The more you produce.
The less you whine, The more you build.
The less you rush, The quicker you arrive.
The less you hoard, The more you gain.
A poor guy who is trying to level up in life should avoid show off and be focused on making more than he is making.
Improving your finance and personal development should be your priority not looking for validation from people who don't care about you.
Instead of focusing on improving yourself and having income producing assets, they always show off as if they have make it in life.
Rich people don't show off because they know which they are and doesn't need anyone validation to feel okay.