A woman doesn’t become less desirable because she takes up space.
With muscles or without. Body hair or freshly shaved. High heels, red lips, and a pretty dress, or a hoodie and sneakers.
Femininity was never meant to be a tiny little box we have to squeeze ourselves into just to be desired.
So yes, there is a difference between liking women and liking the idea of what you think a woman should be.
And maybe it’s time to ask yourself: are you allowing yourself to be fully desired, or are you still making yourself smaller to fit someone else’s expectations?
Bloody beginner or already experienced, if you feel like you need some guidance in discovering what desire, femininity, and dominance look like when they are truly yours, let me guide you. 🖤
Do you believe in “natural dominance”?
I never quite understood why people believe leadership skills are something you are born with. From my personal experience, as well as from mentoring a variety of people, I’ve found that leadership is something you grow into, shaped by your character, your skills, your ability to reflect, learn, and evolve. And it can look so different.
So if someone tells you that you’re not meant to lead, maybe ask yourself why they’re so invested in keeping you from trying.
You might already have it within you. Perhaps you just haven’t had anyone challenge you to bring it out yet.
So what are you waiting for? 🖤