My husband saved my mother's number with "sweetheart"
So recently I found out my husband usually call a number he saved with "sweetheart"
I kept quiet and didn't ask him anything about it
I had planned to figure it out myself instead.
He saved my first MTN number with "my wife"
Then saved the second Glo number with "My baby"
Yesterday, while he went down to get something, I checked his phone
To my greatest surprise, it was my mother's number that he saved with "Sweetheart"
I don't know what to think as I went speechless..
I don't know if I should ask him why or ignore it..
I don't want it to seems like I am overthinking it but I'm curious to know why?
What do you think? If you're in this situation, what will you do please?
( From my DM, she's in the comment section please)
From my DM:
For 25 years, my family has been searching for my brother, and not a single day has gone by without hoping for news about him.
His name is Chukwugekwu Okonkwo. He is Nigerian, from Abagana, and was born on July 12, 1979. The last time we saw him was when he was about to travel abroad, and since then, he has completely disappeared from our lives.
About six years ago, someone claimed to have seen him in Cameroon. Since then, we have held onto that hope, going from place to place in search of answers. We keep being told that he is alive but not doing well.
This is a desperate call for help.
If you have seen him, know anything about him, or have any information at all, please reach out.
All information and questions can be sent to @splashysophy.
Please help us share this as widely as possible. Someone, somewhere might have the missing piece to this story.
@lindaikeji@ImANorthernGirl
#MissingPerson #FindChukwugekwu #Nigeria #Cameroon
I hope this message reaches the right person, as I have to try.
I am searching for my mother, Joy Bassey (maiden name), who comes from the Emienyi family in Nusomutong, Abi LGA, Cross River State, Nigeria. Her brother is Clement Bassey.
She left when I was very young, and I have spent my life without knowing her, hearing her voice, or having answers to my questions.
I was informed that she remarried and moved to Ghana, and since then, she has completely disappeared from my life.
If you know her, if you’ve heard her name, or if this message somehow reaches someone connected to her, please, I am begging you to help me find my mother.
Even the smallest piece of information could change everything.
Please repost. Someone out there must know something. 🙏💔
My house help is becoming a big problem for me. She is 14 years old. I have tried to treat her like my own child, but she is not improving at all.
She is currently in Primary 3 because she couldn’t read or write when I first brought her in. She now attends a good school, but her behavior is getting worse every day.
My greatest concern is that she looks me straight in the eye and lies. She also steals any amount of money she comes across. This is my biggest worry.
What should I do?
@ummuh_Zahra Woman don't have cravings when at work. It is only when at home or the husband is around.
Tell her to snap out of the nonsense and focus before she developed craving for the neighbour's dick..
Dating in Nigeria is actually an extreme sport, I swear. If you are looking for uncomfortable truths about love & dating, just look at what happened to my guy recently.👇
He invited this babe out for a simple, casual lunch, and she literally brought a crowd.
He had asked her out to this nice spot in VI and budgeted around 30k, just for the two of them to grab a bite, chill, and get to know each other.
Tell me why this babe showed up with two of her besties, claiming they were just in the neighborhood.
To make matters worse, these girls didn't even hold back, they ordered the most expensive steaks and cocktails on the menu.
When the waiter brought the bill, it was a whopping 145k!
My guy didn't even argue or make a scene. He just paid, smiled at them, ordered his Uber, and blocked her number the exact second he closed the car door. 😂 That right there is how you raise standards. We don't accept bare minimum here, and we definitely don't tolerate zero etiquette."
Omo, people have suffered in this country. We really need to fix our mindset when it comes to how we treat people. Guys/babes, what’s the most outrageous billing you’ve ever experienced on a date? Let's hear it!👇
I used to give my ex my school fee back then because he always promised to pay me back but he never did. When it is time for me to pay, I’d end up begging married men in my class who were asking me out and some of my friends will contribute for me too because my school fee was 650k back then. There was even one man who always helped me, no matter what.
And yet, this same guy was still be@ting me, on top of my own money.
Looking back now, I just thank God for life. Everyone warned me about him, but I didn’t listen. I even fought my mum and my friends because of him.
Today, I’m just grateful I finally broke free from that yoke. It cost me 7–8 years of my life, but I’ve learned something powerful: it wasn’t love. It was fear. Fear of starting over.
And honestly? Starting over saved me.
My brother who stays with me noticed some unauthorised deductions from his account last week when he was out of the country
The deductions came in bits and the total money deducted so far is now 350k.
He told me about it when he came back and i ask him to report to the Police.
Upon investigation, the person whom the money was transferred to was arrested and further investigation revealed it was my son who took my brother's ATM card for those transfers.
Atanda, the Police has arrested my son already and i am trying to let them know it's a family matter and they should let it go
The IPO is telling me it's a state matter.
Pls Atanda, have spoken to my brother and we don't want the case
Pls what is the best way to withdraw the case from the Police since they are trying to do over sabi
From the people's parliament
One of my area big aunt once invited me to her white garment church. She specifically told me to come with a broom. I didn’t even think deep about it, I just carried my broom, closed my shop that Tuesday, and went… inside rain o 😭
Service was actually going well, I was even enjoying it… until the pastor called me out. He said I should bring my broom, that God revealed the problem I came with would not go back with me. I shouted “Amen!” with full chest.
Next thing, he told one of the elders to take me outside… inside that same rain… and beat me with the broom until it scattered.
They flogged me like say I thief goat😂
When we got home, I warn that aunt “please don’t EVER invite me to this your church again” 😂