Having drinks at a party does not mean you agreed to have sex with someone. It does not matter if you willingly took every single drink. You can consent to getting drunk without consenting to sex.
If someone is highly intoxicated, the answer should be to make sure they get home safely. Make sure they are okay. Protect them when they are vulnerable. It should never be seen as an opportunity to have sex with them.
We put so much focus on what the intoxicated person did. How much did they drink? Why did they drink that much? Did they flirt?
How about we focus on the person who saw someone highly intoxicated and still chose to have sex with them.
That is the conversation we should be having.
Almost in every case where the claim is that she was raped because she was drunk and thus couldn't have consented, the men involved also were drunk.
So howcome women have no agency when they are drunk but men do?
This is what we call double standards.