I think the worst type of insecure person, is someone who is so convinced they’re not insecure due to an overinflated ego. Not knowing that that is usually a sign of major insecurity.
I can’t preach to my people about being better. wanting better. achieving better. without being dead honest about my own fuck ups in life. not that I owe anyone that intel. it’s receipts for my own soul.
ppl have a really hard time admitting there’s no avoidance or any other ailment in the world that’s gonna stop someone that is deadset on making something work with you from doing so lol. that’s not a thing. they just aren’t motivated enough. it’s life.
One day gents you must understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but it’s really SO simple.
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do you know why people stay in fucked up situations? bc their systems are more comfortable in chaos than they’re equipped to navigate calm. telling someone to leave and find someone better is telling them to learn a new language from scratch. not how life works friends.
The biggest ick isn’t just someone who lies. It’s someone who lies to themselves. A flip flopper, fantasy addict, emotional con artist. A validation addict & emotionally unavailable love bomber who performs closeness but has no real anchor inside. Let me explain:
Takes a lot of self-awareness, self worth, and self-respect to realize that people are not required to change who they are because you want them to. And that if it's not enough for you to be happy, you should move around.