Communicate when you’re upset
Communicate how you feel about me
Communicate if you’re going through something
Communicate if you’re done
All those games, manipulation or tests don’t help fr, you’re killing the connection
one of the most painful realizations is that you can spend months trying to save a relationship while slowly losing the ability to recognize yourself inside it.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist.
If you're an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don't make everything a matter of life and death.