I think that’s partly due to it being a cultural norm. In the white community, teens take their partners home in high school and families are guiding those relationships. Black teens are taught dating is a crime and are then expected to pull a spouse and kids out a hat
@gothbabooshka Its literally so exhausting having to deal with people pleasers bc theyll ask u for advice regarding a situation in which they should be confronting somebody and they will NEVER LISTEN TO YOU!! Like why are u asking/ complaining to me if ur gonna be a pushover 😭😭
@gothbabooshka Also, don't be too bothered about hurting people's feelings. They will gaslight and manipulate you mercilessly when they know you don't want to be named the villain. With women, it's villain or victim. Always choose to be the villain. ALWAYS.
@scurviex Bringing pets of any kind into a grocery store is incredibly unsanitary. Literally the only exception is service animals since they have to be trained incredibly well. lockdown made a lot of people way too clingy with their pets, so now they won’t leave the house without them
I think the best thing I'm learning as an adult is to ignore people. When you realize people say & do weird & evil things to get a reaction out of you, you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point. No response is the loudest response. The moment you respond people start feeling important & think they bigger than the program but I control the traffic