People being weird to you for no reason is weird. I always notice it, and I don’t take it lightly. & they always do it in ways subtle enough to deny, but obvious enough for you to feel.. they just never think you catch it
People with HIGH STANDARDS gatekeep their personality. once they see malicious intent, their energy shifts permanently. they don’t argue, they don’t explain, they just remove access.
I was at Dischem last week and had a chat with the cashiers about the cost of living and the crazy pricing there. One of them said every day they see people swiping their exact salary with no bother or care, because that money is nothing to them.
This tweet reminds me of that; some people don’t know the value of money because they have too much of it, then turn it into an economic debate.
There are people whose salary is just that 5,000, and it sustains them for the entire month.
Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted
I wanna experience a man loving me so much, that hurting me is unfathomable to him … even when we’re not seeing eye to eye. On our worst days, I’m still the apple of his eye.