Pregnancy is 9 months, motherhood takes a lifetime
Your issue isn't women's appearance or "nagging". Your issue is that you have evidently never known love. For what reason would you purposefully create a motherless child? What trauma will you bring to a child if their father hates the very concept of a mother?
You should not be creating new souls if you find the original vessel of new life abhorrent and detestable.
I see many men and women thinking they can take a shortcut here. Medically it may be possible and help a lot of people. But spiritually, you are spitting on God if you think you can treat the conception of human life like a factory.
We cannot live in a world where governments collude to protect Jeffrey Epstein and to murder Charlie Kirk.
This doesn’t work.
We elect rulers who stay silent or choose to look the other way when children are being abused because of money or cowardice.
This no longer works.
@Theholisticpsyc Interesting. I’m newly sober and I’m learning to listen to my body in stressful moments or when I’m anxious and I’ve noticed lately when I get anxious I literally want to shake my hands/body. Makes sense now.
Marry the girl with the messy childhood. The one who has experienced tremendous suffering from those she loved, yet chose to heal and rebuild herself. She'll challenge you to do better and call you out on your BS, but she will love you and your children like nothing you've known.
If we focused on teaching children the skills to create long term relationships, emotional regulation, and repair after conflict— we would live in a different world.
A lack of emotional education has society stuck in survival mode.
Teaching children how to regulate their emotions is crime prevention.
It’s addiction prevention.
It’s the path to a world where people can disagree, and still respect each other.
@Theholisticpsyc Makes sense why I wanted to work at such a young age to give my brothers what they wanted/deserved while I ignored my needs. & I’m the middle child. Oldest/only daughter
@Theholisticpsyc If schools have an "Emotional Intelligence" course the world would be a better place
Kids need to be taught to face negative emotions rather than run away from it
@earlkimy@Theholisticpsyc Yes that was what I told myself to be able to regulate myself and stay put, he then returned to me completely unbothered by them and I realized..it’s all in my head.