@TruthBeTold424@thisisfoster But it does say to be subject to the governing authorities. Thus I don’t know churches that perform ceremonies without the marriage license.
@RedPanda6471@thisisfoster No. You are married. If you want a church service, I know people who have added a simple small church ceremony years after the original civil marriage.
One day, a man discusses the future of countries. The next, the country discusses him in the past tense. He was gone between two sunsets.
A dead man’s calendar can still look busy. Meetings remain written in their squares. Unanswered messages wait inside a glowing screen, each one addressed to someone who can no longer reply. Death does not clear the desk before it enters the room. It simply comes.
Lindsey Graham’s sudden death still places a cold hand upon every living shoulder. It reminds us that tomorrow has never signed a promise to return. We build our lives upon the quiet assumption that another day waits nearby. Forgiveness is saved for later and hard conversations remain buried beneath the hope of a better hour. Christians sit across from people they love, talk about weather, politics, ball games, grandchildren, and supper, then swallow the name of Jesus because the moment feels uncomfortable.
Meanwhile, the clock keeps moving toward an appointment written on a calendar we cannot see, “It is appointed for men to die once and after this comes judgment” (Hebrews 9:27).
That word, appointed, removes death from the realm of chance. God knows the hour when each heart will beat for the last time. We often reschedule dentists, cancel lunches and move meetings into next week. This appointment remains fixed. Our ignorance of the date never changes its certainty and scripture refuses to paint death with soft colors. Death entered the world through sin. God formed Adam from the dust, breathed life into him and placed him beneath the goodness of His rule. Adam rebelled, and then humanity followed. Every grave now carries us back to Eden, where the creature reached for God’s throne and found dust waiting beneath his feet.
Death feels unnatural because it is an intruder. It tears souls from bodies, husbands from wives, parents from children and voices from rooms that still remember their sound. Beneath every funeral lies a greater terror. After death comes judgment.
Power cannot bribe that court. Reputation cannot sway its verdict. Religion cannot hide the stains we carried beneath our Sunday clothes. Every secret enters the light, where excuses fall silent. The holy God before whom angels cover their faces will judge us with perfect righteousness.
Our need reaches far deeper than a longer life. We need a Savior. Jesus entered our world of hospital rooms, funeral clothes and sealed tombs. Outside the grave of Lazarus, He heard the broken voices of two grieving sisters. He saw tears running down familiar faces. Then the One who knew He would soon raise the dead stood beside them and wept. Those tears reveal the heart of Christ. He never treats human sorrow as a lesson to be delivered from a safe distance. Christ steps close enough to feel the ache. Yet compassion alone could not rescue us. Guilt required payment. Death required a conqueror.
So Jesus turned His face toward Jerusalem. Soldiers drove iron through the hands that had touched lepers and lifted children. The mouth that spoke peace to storms tasted sour wine. Darkness covered the land while the sinless Son of God stood in the place of sinners. The lies we defended, the pride we fed, the lust we concealed and the worship we withheld were laid upon Him. All of it was ours. The sentence fell upon Christ.
At Calvary, God did more than show us love. He satisfied His justice. Jesus bore the wrath our rebellion deserved and offered His righteous life for guilty people who possessed none of their own. His blood purchased forgiveness. Through His death, the way home opened.
A criminal hung beside Him with minutes left to live. The thief could repair nothing. His hands were fastened open. That stained record could never be rewritten. He could climb down from the cross neither to repay his victims nor to prove that his repentance was sincere. All he carried into those final breaths was guilt.
He turned his dying face toward Jesus and asked to be remembered. Christ gave him far more, “Today you shall be with Me in Paradise” (Luke 23:43).
Grace reached a man at the edge of eternity. Paradise opened to empty hands because the Savior beside him was paying the cost. The thief brought his sin. Jesus supplied everything else. Then Christ died. His body was wrapped in linen and carried into a borrowed grave. A stone closed the entrance. Saturday passed beneath a terrible silence. His disciples hid behind locked doors while grieving women prepared spices for a corpse. Early Sunday morning, they walked toward the tomb expecting death to remain where they had left it. The stone had moved.
Mary later heard her name spoken by the voice she thought had been silenced forever. Hands pierced by nails were warm with life. From the mouth that cried, “It is finished,” came words of peace for frightened disciples. Jesus rose bodily from the grave. He did not survive as an idea, a memory, or a cause. The crucified Christ stood alive.
History’s great shock came from an empty tomb. Death entered certain of another victory and came out carrying its own defeat. Christ lives and everyone joined to Him through faith will live with Him. This is the gospel. You have sinned against the God who made you. Judgment waits beyond your final breath. Jesus lived the righteous life you have failed to live, carried the guilt you could never remove, died beneath the sentence you deserved and rose in triumph from the grave.
Turn from sin and lay down the right to rule your own life. Rest the full weight of your soul upon Christ, His blood, His righteousness, and His resurrection. He receives ruined people. A filthy past cannot exhaust His mercy. An accusing conscience cannot overpower His promise. The Savior who welcomed a dying thief still welcomes sinners who come with empty hands.
Perhaps years remain before your appointment. Your name may be spoken in the past tense before another sunset. Come today. Then think of the people whose names live in your phone. Picture the chair they occupy at your table. Hear the voice you would give anything to hear again if death entered tonight.
Love them enough to speak. Speak of the cross. Point them to the empty grave. Tell them Christ saves.
Someone you love is a wisp of smoke passing through a keyhole.
Speak before the room is empty.
There are many moments when words simply aren’t enough. So instead of words, I offer a prayer.
Lord, I lift up @MrsErikaKirk to You. I don’t have the words she needs, and I don’t pretend to know her sorrow but You do. She is grieving a weight more than any heart was meant to bear. So I ask You, gently, to carry what she cannot.
Draw near to her as only You can. You are the God who “is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Surround her with Your presence when the silence feels unbearable.
The world sees loss. You see every tear, and Scripture says You keep them not one falls unnoticed (Psalm 56:8). You are the Savior who stood outside Lazarus’s tomb and wept, who knows grief from the inside. Be near to her pain, not distant from it.
Where she has no strength left, be her strength. Give her a hope that does not rest on her own, but on the risen Christ, who conquered sin and death and who promised that one day He will wipe away every tear and make all things new.
Until that day, let the everlasting arms hold her. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and her mind in Christ Jesus. And let Your people surround her with love and steadfast prayer.
There is nothing more powerful than prayer, not because of who we are, but because of who You are. And there is a special power when we come together, for where two or three gather in Your name, You are there among them. So I ask this not because my words carry any weight, but because Yours do. May she be held. May she be comforted. And may she never once feel that she carries this alone.
In Jesus’ name, amen.
@TPUSA Wow , lots of opportunities to block and mute hateful people in this comment section 😞Satan is at work, but he already stands defeated. Stay the course!