You really shouldn’t be fighting anyone that you’re not willing to kill. And yes it is that serious. It could EASILY go that far and as an adult, if the issue is not worth killing about then it’s not worth fighting over either.
Rumi was right when he said Live like the world is rigged in your favor. The second you move like you own it, reality starts bending to prove you right.
I'm a big fan of the "GPS Theory" when you miss a turn, your GPS doesn't judge you, it recalculates. No matter how many detours you take, it finds another way forward. Life works like that too. You'll make mistakes, but your destination doesn't vanish. The route just changes.
Stephen A. Smith says where the hell the Los Angeles Lakers think they going with a bunch of white dudes:
“SOMEBODY HAD TO SAY IT. SO I’m saying it. Your three TOP PLAYERS ARE WHITE DUDES. REALLY? This ain’t golf. This ain’t baseball. Hell, it ain’t even soccer. And we got a whole bunch of brothers ON TEAM USA. WHAT Y’ALL THINK THIS IS? IT’S BASKETBALL.”
(Via @stephenasmith)