@guyfromcanada3 If it's a woman you have romantic intentions for, I'd argue against being their friend; you can be friendly. If you give them unconditional friendship, there is no incentive or pressure to date you, you're the emotional sponge while she pursues her real interest. Value your time
My strongest advice to young men is to just comfortably talk to women their peer age, a little younger, and a little older, all of them platonically. You need to know what women are all about and they will indirectly give you cheat codes by telling you what they actually like.
Pay attention to what girls actually swoon over and also pay attention to what are deal breakers for them. Also be honest recognizing what red flags your female friends so you can know what to avoid in someone you want a relationship with. Learn through other people vicariously.