There’s a difference between an honest mistake and a conscious choice. Both happened here, and one doesn’t erase the other.
Call it a mistake, dress it up, defend it to death.
The choices are still sitting there in black and white, speaking louder than any words ever could.
it’s deeply human to want the people who hurt you to understand the pain they caused, to be sorry, to care, and to take accountability for what happened.
there’s nothing wrong with wanting that. you don’t need to feel ashamed for wanting someone to acknowledge your pain and help make things right.
if they can’t or won’t do that, it isn’t your failure.
‘please, whenever there’s a fan war or something comes up, just let it be. There’s nothing that needs to get heated over.’
Well, judging by his fans’ posts hours later, it seems they’re all deaf and he did that live for absolutely nothing. 🤣
I bet he must be so proud of that.
“We’re all friends. We all love and support each other”
Oh, absolutely. What a beautiful family.
Nothing says “family” like rushing in as ‘knight in shining armor’ for certain people, while suddenly developing selective silence whenever someone else needs the same support.
@hoeranghaezz It was a GROUP shoot.
Two understood it and posted accordingly.
One seemed to think otherwise… even with 18/19 pics to CHOOSE from the approved ones he received..
But they both addressed it, so think what you want…
What the fck?
CUTTING OUT the one with Dunk and posting only the one with Santa? When Dunk posted 4 out of 5 pics from that shoot with Phuwin?
Because relationship aside, is THIS his idea of professionalism and respect?
It was a 3-person shoot, not a duo, in case he forgot…
Not Phuwin uploaded ellemen pics on instagram but exclude Dunk Natachai
What's wrong with you, Phuwin? Do you hate Dunk because he is close with your partner? Do you feel unsafe if Pond choose to change his partner to Dunk and you lose money from yaoi girls
@hoeranghaezz So choosing 3 photos + 2 words for a CROCS post was so complex he needed a whole team that somehow forgot there were 3 people in that photoshoot?
Because cropped pic aside, it doesn’t change that D was EXCLUDED/DISRESPECTED.
Accountability is clearly too much to ask,right? 🤡
And if you want to defend your bias, try using your brain before you start typing…
Blame-shifting and body-shaming don’t make you smarter.
They just prove you’re too fucking stupid to see the damage you’re creating for your favorite and the people around them.
The day people stop putting artists on pedestals and treating them like saints who can do no wrong, we’ll finally be able to acknowledge problems and address them constructively.
But today? Yeah… today is definitely not that day.
@orangbaik179946 I won’t speculate about their friendship because we don’t know what goes on in private.
I have my thoughts,but I’m criticizing that post right now.
Still,the most INSANE part?
They’re making it worse by shifting the blame onto the brand, not understanding how harmful it is.
WHO do THEY call ‘bestie’? WHO do THEY actually spend time with?
Work relationships ≠ real friendships.
You can be supportive, get along, and have fun together while still being just coworkers.
So let’s stop pretending every close coworker is automatically a ‘best friend’.
Honestly, I’m baffled people still use “Joylada” as if it holds some special meaning.
YOU slapped a label on four people and built expectations around it.
YOU call them “besties” left and right, as if you are part of their lives.
But have you ever taken a good look at them?
I’ll say it again & again: I don’t give a fck about their friendship… it’s not the problem here.
And don’t use the brand to justify PW’s post. Because saying the brand told him to EXCLUDE one of them is INSANE.
HE CHOSE what photos to post, and you know there were many more.
And that’s the only thing I’m calling out: the DISRESPECT.
It was a 3-person photoshoot.
He didn’t just exclude Dunk, he CUT him from a pic he was in.
I’d understand if he posted ONLY himself, but he also used the one with Santa.
So,what did Dunk do to deserve that treatment?
What a joke… Calling out the BLATANT DISRESPECT toward your own bias is “starting a fanwar”?
Then start listing EVERYONE in your fandom doing the same right now.
And stop calling yourself his “protector”, when you can’t even do your job right…
#dunknatachai#dunkdunk
And let’s make TWO THINGS CLEAR:
1- This has nothing to do with Pond or their relationship, so leave that out.
2- I mentioned Santa only to highlight Pw’s choice. No hate toward him.
My ONLY issue and criticism is Pw’s choice in regards the photoshoot post.
NOTHING ELSE.
And that’s the only thing I’m calling out: the DISRESPECT.
It was a 3-person photoshoot.
He didn’t just exclude Dunk, he CUT him from a pic he was in.
I’d understand if he posted ONLY himself, but he also used the one with Santa.
So,what did Dunk do to deserve that treatment?
@pondisstraight Some solo stans hate Pond despite Pw constantly saying he wants to work with him.
Why would they ever respect D?
They’ll just label any criticism as "hate speech" and the one saying it as an anti…even when they are not.
Yet, if D did the same, he’d be roasted alive online.
Joong will probably keep being part of the entertainment world (in front of or behind the camera).
Maybe he’ll go back to living in Turkey one day.
But I’m sure he’s gonna be just like Dunk and build a family of his own..with SOMEONE ELSE.
#JDJaideeFMinSeoul#จุงดัง#JoongDunk
Their SEPARATE paths are pretty clear…and Joong made sure to remind it that us.
Dunk's biggest dream is to lead his family like his dad, so he’ll follow in his footsteps by marrying a WOMAN & having kids while making Navori his main job.
#JDJaideeFMinSeoul#จุงดัง#JoongDunk
And here is another proof:
‘A very deep FRIENDSHIP’
THIS is all they are and will ever be.
Fantasize all you want, but it won’t become a reality…
They love fans and their job, but it doesn't change that.
JOONGDUNK JAIDEE SEOUL SMILES
#JDJaideeFMinSeoul#จุงดัง#JoongDunk