I’m starting to notice a pattern where I’m drawn to men who pursue me strongly at first, but later reveal they don’t have the capacity for the consistency and emotional investment I need…
Let's normalize NOT forgiving, nor feeling empathy, nor pity for those people who didn't think about us while doing things they knew would hurt us.
I too have a sad past and I don't use it as an excuse to be a shitty person.
i’m having the most peaceful crashout of my life rn.. like i’m going insane, but also just chilling and vibing. i’m stressed about a bunch of stuff, but at the same time i’m not. i don't know how to explain it..
i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. its crucial.
One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.
Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.