The hardest part about an AVOIDANT relationship is the sudden shift.
One day everything is warm, intimate, and connected. The next day, you’re talking to a brick wall and you’re left confused and wondering what you did wrong.
i don't think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that's it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i'm a bad person. i have my ways and my days, but i'm solid, my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.