USA. A Mexican restaurant. We had not yet ordered anything, and the food was already arriving.
Chips. Salsa. Unrequested. Free.
I stopped the waiter. "We have not earned these."
"They just come with the table, man."
They come with the TABLE. In my land, hospitality is a debt. Every gift creates an obligation, weighed carefully, returned in the proper season with interest of feeling. Here, the gift arrives before you have even proven you can pay for dinner.
This is not an appetizer. This is a declaration: we trust you. Eat.
I ate with the gravity the moment deserved. And then — I must report this calmly — the basket emptied, and a new one appeared.
"Did we…?"
"Refill," the waiter said. "It's bottomless."
Bottomless. They have wells of salsa. The supply lines of this nation are beyond anything my ancestors imagined.
My friend warned me. "Don't fill up on chips, dude."
Too late. I had accepted three baskets. Honor demanded each one be finished — an unfinished gift is an insult. By the time my actual food arrived, I was a ruined man.
I was not hungry. I was not comfortable. I had been defeated by a courtesy.
Generosity that arrives before the request cannot be repaid. It can only be survived.
I know the rule now. I have made my peace with the basket. One basket. Two at the most.
Who am I deceiving. There is no number of baskets I would refuse. The trust of a nation is in that salsa, and I intend to honor all of it.
🚨🐺 EXCL: Wolves agree deal in principle to appoint Cesar Peixoto as new head coach.
Interest reported by O Jogo, now verbal agremeent in place with Peixoto to take over at #WWFC.
Excellent job at Gil Vicente with record results and seen among top talented young managers.
It’ll be quite liberating for Wolves to offload players in January - Matt Doherty’s words yesterday appeared pointed and there are clearly players who are looking for a way out and they’re the ones linked with moves.
As a supporter, I’d rather have 11 players playing for the shirt regardless of quality.
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Houston Wolves has secured a permanent move on a long-term deal!
All parties in agreement, and here we go for the first game of the season next Saturday versus Man. City!
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Conference realignment merry-go-round in the coming days, sources say:
Texas State leaves Sun Belt for Pac-12
Louisiana Tech leaves Conference USA for Sun Belt
CUSA likely remains at 10 schools in 2026