@Ade_Dohyeen They arent the only ones. Alot of people do it for the same reasons. They dont have to give explanations to anyone about what works for them.
@dammy4trueluv If the man helps her pay things if she does or she is about to have kids, or she studying then its ok. Other than that is a red flag. He can put her in a position to only rely on him for control and not to actually provide and protect like he supposed to.
@dbrent_ I'm sorry all these things are happening at the same exact time. I send a strong virtual hug to you. Nobody should be going through all that at the same time. I hope your parent gets through their cancer battle and new opportunities for work open up for you.