Gidan Shettima; the office of the Kano Council of Emirs has undergone an extensive renovation in a Hausa-styled Architectural setup.
Hausa architecture is perhaps one of the most beautiful aspects of Hausa culture and civilization.
Gidan Shettima; the office of the Kano Council of Emirs has undergone an extensive renovation in a Hausa-styled Architectural setup.
Hausa architecture is perhaps one of the most beautiful aspects of Hausa culture and civilization.
Everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
My personal observation concerning Ahmed XM, Safiya, and Safeera's story is this:
I have come to realize that for many men, especially after they become wealthy or famous, love is no longer the only factor in their decisions. When a man is struggling, he may truly love deeply because his options are limited. But when money and fame come, everything changes. Many women become interested in him, and he suddenly has a lot of alternatives.
This is why I sometimes believe that when successful men remain with the women who stood by them when they had nothing, it is not always because of love alone. Sometimes, it is because of gratitude, history, or even pity. The man remembers that this woman chose him when he had nothing, believed in him, and built with him when nobody knew him.
Many people often use Davido and Chioma as an example. They say Davido is still with Chioma because she accepted him before the fame became what it is today. Today, many women would want to be with him because of his status, but Chioma was there long before all of that.
Looking at Ahmed XM's situation, people kept posting old pictures of Ahmed and Safeera, reminding him that she was with him when he had little, that they built together, and that she believed in him. Those constant reminders could naturally make someone reflect on the past and begin to feel a sense of obligation, gratitude, or even pity.
For me, Ahmed XM had already left Safeera and moved on to marry Safiya. This shows that at some point, he made a decision and was convinced about it. Therefore, I do not believe that returning to Safeera automatically means that she was the love of his life that he could never live without. I think history, memories, gratitude, and public pressure may also have played a role.
On the other hand, Safeera may have returned with the belief that she was the perfect woman for Ahmed because of their history. And Ahmed may feel out of pity that he has cheated safeera and want to make it up to her and in the process hurting Safiya, Safiya, who had already given birth and could have been dealing with postpartum emotions, might naturally have felt hurt, betrayed, or insecure. Most women in such a situation would struggle emotionally.
At the same time, Safeera herself may have been trying her best to prove that she is the only one that deserved to be chosen and try to be so humble in order to win Ahmed heart just like before. But in situations like this, love alone is never enough.
We have seen many people date for ten years, get married, and separate after one or two years in marriage . We have also seen people know each other for just a few months and build homes that last forever. The number of years spent together does not guarantee a successful marriage.
Marriage is deeper than history. It is deeper than first love. It is deeper than social media chemistry. Marriage requires justice, sacrifice, communication, emotional maturity, patience, and above all, fear of Allah.
Only Allah knows what truly happened between Ahmed XM, Safiya, and Safeera. As outsiders, we can only reflect and learn lessons, but only those inside the home know the full story.
May Allah grant all of them peace, happiness, and understanding in their home . Ameen.
Assalamu Alaikum.
I Ummulkhairi Aliyu, wish to formally announce my withdrawal of support for the All Progressives Congress (APC). I no longer want to be associated with the party or any of its activities.
This decision is entirely mine and was made of my own free will. No one has forced, threatened, influenced, or pressured me in any way. I take full responsibility for this choice.
Furthermore, I am not a member of, nor am I affiliated with, any other political party. In fact, I do not wish to be associated with any political party at this time.
Going forward, I will support political candidates based on their character, competence, integrity, and commitment to serving the people not because of party affiliation or any selfish interest.
I pray that Allah restores peace, security, unity, and prosperity to Northern Nigeria and to our country as a whole.
May Allah guide our leaders, protect our nation, and grant us a brighter future.
Signed:
Ummulkhairi Aliyu
The Umdazz
Dua to stop being lazy
Allahumma inni a'udhu bika minal-'ajzi wal-kasal.
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْعَجْزِ وَالْكَسَلِ
O Allah, I seek Your protection from weakness and laziness.
BIOGRAPHY OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W)
Name: Muhammad (S.A.W)
Father: Abdullah
Mother: Aminah
Date of Birth: 12th Rabi‘ al-Awwal
Place of Birth: Makkah
Date of Death: 8 June 632 CE (11 AH)
Place of Death: Madinah
Age at Death: 63 years
1. All needs: Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir.
2. Difficulties: Lailaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minazalimeen.
3. Any problem: Allahumma arhamni birahmatika ya arhamar rahimeen.
4. To fulfill wishes: HasbiyAllahu la ilaha illa huwa alayhi tawakkaltu wa huwa Rabbul 'Arshil 'Adhim.
5. Asking for highest rank in Jannah: Allahumma adkhilni Jannatal firdaws.
**If you are kidnapped in Nigeria, you are completely on your own. No security agency will save you.
"My nephew was kidnapped while I was SA to Vice President Shettima. I knocked on every door, entered every office, and gave them the exact coordinates of the location. They promised to help but couldn't. We spent ₦175 Million, including ransom, before he was released after 36 days in captivity. The security agencies couldn't help." - Dr. Hakeem Baba-Ahmed, brother to Datti Baba-Ahmed
WHAT IRAN GOT:
•$300 billion
•Removed sanctions
•Control of Strait of Hormuz
•Maintains missile program
•No destruction of nuclear program
WHAT THE U.S. GOT
•Higher gas prices
•Billions spent
•No major objectives achieved
•Americans dead
We got fleeced.