I sent a risky text at 2:17am.
“Hey… are you awake?”
It was to someone I hadn’t spoken to in almost a year.
We didn’t fight.
We just… stopped.
You know how that happens.
No reply.
I stared at my screen for 5 minutes, then 10.
I almost deleted the message.
Then my phone buzzed.
“I was just thinking about you.”
I froze.
We ended up talking till almost 5am—laughing like nothing ever changed.
Before we slept, they said something that stuck with me:
“I thought you forgot about me.”
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Crazy how both people can care… and still stay silent.
Be honest—have you ever wanted to text someone but didn’t? 👇
As a Wife, If a man flirts with you knowing you have a Husband, that is not a compliment. He is not seeing a great woman. He is seeing weak boundaries.
He is not thinking, "She is special." He is thinking, "She can be taken."
And the moment you entertain that attention, you are proving how easy it is to disrespect your Marriage.
A man who openly crosses that line does not respect your Husband, But worse than that he does not respect you either.👂🏿🤌🏿
Women reject broke men - Standards.
Men reject single moms - immature.
Women reject short men - Preference.
Men reject fat women - body shaming.
Women set boundaries - knows her worth.
Men set boundaries-Controlling.
It’s becomes hypocrisy when they only apply one way.
Dear Men in relationships,
It is never your duty to protect your woman from other men coming to toast her, flirt with her, or want more things from her.
It is your woman's responsibility to create boundaries against any man who wants her or desires her. The moment your woman starts to entertain these men, your job is not to protect her from them or try to beg her to stop.
A woman who values your worth, what both of you have shared, will not entertain other men.
HeartMattaz
Smoking weed disconnects you from the spiritual world
Stoners THINK it’s the opposite
Because they get mildly psychedelic on it
But the proof is in dreams
You can’t dream when you smoke weed
And dreams are the most common connection to the spiritual world
Castrating drug.
Being a man isn’t always easy.
You plan the trip, fuel the car, make sure everyone’s comfortable… and somewhere along the way, the music goes quiet.
You check the mirror 🪞
All the babies? Fast asleep.
Even your babe? Gone 😄
And just like that, from “family man” to a chauffeur.
Deep down, you smile though you feel they should keep you company and help stay awake as well 😴.
But this is what love looks like;
Carrying everyone safely, even when they don’t see it in the moment.
Men… we keep driving ❤️