i’ve come to believe that much of what reads as desire among gay men - hunger for belonging, status, and sex - is shaped by growing up not feeling safe/belonging early on. stress and internalized shame teach you to compete for your place and to treat validation as scarce. In that climate, sex and lust often becomes the most available script for closeness between men, standing in for kinds of intimacy that were never modeled.
real platonic friendship becomes possible when one can lower the ego enough to stop auditioning.. when connection no longer has to prove anything.
Look it’s kinda fun figuring out what your dicks look like with the overlay trend but honestly divas,
Why not just post the hogs? You want to, we want you to, you already basically have.
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Date someone you’re physically attracted to cause they will annoy you at some point, & when they annoy you, at least you will be looking at someone who is fine. Someone who is not fine to you will just make you even ANGRIER
#exposeme 😈😈😈
🔁 25 RT: Ich poste meinen privaten NSFW Zweitaccount und nehme 48h jeden an, der anfragt 😏
🔁 75 RT: Ich poste das unblurred Foto permanent