The worst thing you can do as a woman is settle. No romance, no flowers, no gifts, no surprises, no vacays, no dates, no quality time?? Just there and available. That's a sad place to be! Never let anyone convince you that you don't deserve better, because there is BETTER !!
My fantasy about marriage is one where love doesn't cost me my freedom. Where I don’t have to shrink myself to fit into someone’s expectations of a wife. It’s a partnership not servitude, not sacrifice as a default. Where I’m not the one bending until I break.