May I say, Avoidant Attachment is bullshit, sorry but wdym you make someone fall for you and suddenly left just because you cant handle the pressure? selfish, and the audacity to make yourself the victim. wow.
If you can love someone enough to talk every day, plan a future, and act like you’re building something together, then you should also have enough respect to end it properly.
Don’t just go silent. Don’t block and disappear like the person never mattered.
If you’re done, say it clearly. Tell them it’s over and move on like an adult.
Yes, it will hurt, but silence is worse. It leaves people confused, blaming themselves, and trying to figure out what went wrong.
Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too.If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.