You're free to argue this, but let me say it.
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.
2. You're richer than your wife.
3. You're older than your wife.
4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.
5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.
6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.
7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.
8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.
9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.
10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.
11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.
12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.
13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.
14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.
15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
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What baffles me is the way we can unite and come together through football but cannot unite and come together against our corrupt and evil governments.
If two people start a company and one contributes 90% of the capital while the other contributes just 10%, when the business starts struggling, who do you think is more likely to walk away first? Exactly, Now apply that same principle to your relationships
You're dating your Gen Z girlfriend, & you invite her to your house.
Instead of her to bring along fruits, or branch the market to purchase food items that she would use to cook, she'll come with 2 G-strings, a black bra, kY-jelly, make up kits, phone, ringlight & tripod.
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As a husband, calling the family of your wife to tell them what their daughter did is also a sign of a weak man.
Send her straight to her father, let her stupidity shock them to their bone marrow.
These decisions are not being made by Nigerians. Not even Nigerians are this self-destructive.
I've said all I can possibly say anyway.
Whoever doesn't get it, shouldn't.
Nobody bought the staged assassination attempt drama, but it didn't matter. It's being used to go after everyone - including non-US citizens and nonresidents.
The Epstein regime is forcing itself into your life, even if you aren't American.
cc @Big_Mck
Instant noodles are one of the most useless foods out there.
They cause cancer, hypertension, irregular menstruation, kidney damage, stomach ulcers, and hormonal imbalance.
Your child’s health is in great danger if you feed them consistently with instant noodles.
You're allowed to change your opinion if you learn something new that challenges your old opinion.
Holding to old opinions in the face of superior intelligence is not a sign of intelligence.
My problem with Africans using Lee Kuan Yew as a stick to beat "African leaders" with is your lack of consistency. You hold him up as an example of a leader who did the things African leaders don't do, but you forget that to get Singapore to the point t he left it, he ran it as a laser-focused 1-party state with a ruthless focus on a single developmental strategy that nobody was allowed to oppose or deviate from.
Thus, instead of spending decades on the unfinished capital projects, financial waste, and expensive political theatre that comes with PDP vs APC or NDC vs NPP partisan politics, the whole of Singapore was forced to focus on national development and nothing else. If you tried to oppose Lee's national development plan in the name of "opposition", the state security services would arrest and detain you without trial, or publicly flog you and make you denounce your opposition.
When Kwame Nkrumah tried to institute something similar to make Ghana a laser-focused developmental state under his leadership - which was equal to or greater than Lee's - you bunch of idiots called him a despot and a dictator, and you collaborated with foreign governments to remove him in a coup, after which you came out into the streets of Accra jubilating and celebrating his downfall. And even up till now in 2026, after having 60 years to reflect on your history, you're still calling Kwame Nkrumah a "dictator" while simultaneously glazing Lee Kuan Yew, because you're hopelessly dumb.
You claim to admire Lee's Singapore because it followed a western approved, capitalist development plan, unlike those dirty Communists in China and Vietnam - but you have no idea that Lee's Singapore might be capitalist in name, but runs one of the most aggressively socialist governments on earth, with birth-to-death subsidies, state programs, government housing, guaranteed employment etc. If someone in your African country runs for election using Singapore's welfare state model as their manifesto, you bunch of idiots will immediately start chorusing "Who will fund this?"and" The problem with socialists is that they always run out of other people's money."
If I point out that Singapore can afford to subsidise everything for its citizens because it is a 1 party state that does not exist perpetually 4 years away from new leadership that can rip everything up, which allows it to make investments and plan with 15, 25, and 40-year horizons, instead of planning for how to use the latest IMF loan to win the next election in 18 months, the same idiots will say that they prefer their APC/PDP, NDC/NPP quadriennial stalemate instead of actual national development because "multiparty electoral democracy is the gold standard for governance."
You people have no idea what you want, and no idea how the world actually works. Everything inside your head is what some white dude dictated in there, because you were trained to receive instruction, not to think and create your own. That's why nobody takes you seriously.
Avoid women that are always quick in saying “i need a man they will take care of me”. Go for the ones that say “we will take care of each other”. These little details matter alot trust me.