actually, i lied.
i also want to receive flowers when i least expect them. i want constant reassurance, random calls, random dates, random gifts, love letters, and forehead kisses. i want quality time, long hugs, and deep conversations. i also want to experience being surprised on my birthday. to be photographed not because i handed you the camera, but because you truly wanted to. i want to be reminded that i am loved right, and that you're proud to have me.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
Unless a man sits you down and tells you straight up " I'm ready to be in a committed relationship, I want you to be my girlfriend." And you agree,then don't assume that you are. It doesn't matter what he does for you,how much you've given him or what you guys do together
If I’ve made plans with a man, on the day I continue with my life like I don’t have plans until he actually reminds me of said plans bc men are disappointing in nature.
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.
A person will change for somebody who they really wanna be with, if you dealing with a person who still not doing right by you, just accept the fact you not the person they want fr
i am SOOOO glad i stopped talking to this guy cuz it’s like my nervous system would be in shackles whenever he would reply late or leave me on seen/ delivered