It's crazy how so many people underestimate the power of language.
You can use it to reframe context and hit harder when you're tired than when you're fresh.
I'm the biggest believer in the law that says more audacity is directly proportional with the reward. And this is when you actually discover that everything is your fault. Assuming radical ownership in life makes everything a breeze.
Before you ask to lead, learn how to follow. All generals, have been soldiers. And only then you can learn you cannot fully control the current of events. Only the you learn to let go. Then you are prepared.