if someone is happy let them be happy. it doesn’t matter if you miss the person , don’t want them to be with someone else, or don’t like the other person. if you truly cared about them you would let them be happy with whoever they want to be happy with.
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it’s more like… handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching’s sake.
i don’t have the energy to be a giver anymore. i need someone to show up for me this time. don’t wanna beg for love and attention anymore. don’t wanna give love to someone who can’t give it back. it’s my turn to feel wanted and loved. i’m tired.
tbh, i feel like the lover girl in me is nowhere to be found anymore. all that’s left is the good friend me. the one who’s busy with her life but will always make time to help u whenever she can. the lover girl me seems to be gone bcs no one deserves the genuine love i can offer
Bro, you can’t get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them..... Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is always key.
I immediately go silent when something upsets me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private. i prefer handling my problems on my own
if they wanna talk to you, they would. if they wanna be with you, they would. if they wanna make things work, they would. don’t ever let things be one sided, it’s not healthy nor fair for you.