Going to leave you with this tonight:
The best thing you can do for yourself is actively increase your surface area for luck to hit you. Go outside, travel more, go to new cates, museums, events, take a new route home, go for hikes, see cities, countrysides, take your notebook, speak to people, ask questions, start businesses - go on more side quests. You can literally just do things, and the more you do, the more serendipity and synchronicity will find you.
The most fun you can possibly have is partying with a mixed guy/girl group filled with hot people
Living in your own world taking flash pictures every 30 seconds
Everyone is hooking up but nothing is serious
2 double XL Ubers to the club