yall really act like someone has to be destitute to receive help/love/care from family and friends. Money with no heart lolol I do not like ppl who are stingy/cheap at the best and worst of times. No one knows what longsuffering looks like .. one action is long suffering to yall.
Chris Rock opens up about one of his CLOSEST FRIENDS spending 19 YEARS in prison for a crime he DIDN’T COMMIT, admitting he had the money to help him get a lawyer but chose NOT TO 😳
He says the case showed him how quickly Black men can be ACCUSED of anything and treated as GUILTY from the start.
“I had the means to help him and I didn’t. And I don’t know if we could have got him out or not, but still.”
Konuyu kapatamayan ve sürekli dile getiren kişinin ihtiyacı karşılanmamıştır; anlaşılmamıştır, sesi duyulmamıştır, hatalar kabul edilmemiştir, samimi bir özür dilenmemiş ve ilişkiyi onarmak için yeterince çaba gösterilmemiştir.
I didn't just miss you.
I mourned you. Like a funeral no one attended. No flowers, no goodbye, no closure. Just me, sitting alone with all the love I still had for you, burying a person who is still alive.
I grieved for you while you were still breathing somewhere else. While you were moving on, I was learning how to live in a world where you no longer existed for me.
That's how deeply I loved you.
İlişkiyi yük sananların çağındayız. Yakınlık kurmak isteği ‘darlamak’ oldu. Duyguların ifadesi ‘drama’ sorun çözmek isteyen ‘bunaltma’ deniyor. Çoğu insan konfor alanından sevmeyi ve sevilmeyi tercih ediyor. Sonuç ise bağ değil mesafe kuruluyor.