i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
I come from a family where I have no advantage of calling uncles or aunty for help... I just run my things alone and I know God is also behind all my hustles
To everyone celebrating openly, to those who can only be themselves around a handful of people, and to those whose safest space is still the internet, you are seen. You matter, and you deserve love exactly as you are. Happy pride month my loves! 🏳️🌈
YOU START LOOKING AT PEOPLE DIFFERENT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT HOW THEY REALLY BEEN TREATING YOU. especially when you realize how much you overlooked just to keep peace, avoid arguments, or keep somebody in your life.
I represent 3 of the most hated people in this world. Black, Gay and a Woman. Today I choose to celebrate all three. Of all the badges I wear, I wear these 3 with so much PRIDE. They are the truest definition of who I am 🙌🏽🏳️🌈❤️
I love being a ray of sunshine. I don’t want to be in anybody’s life making it harder. If I ever am, cut me off. I’d rather be remembered for bringing peace, kindness, and good energy than for adding weight to someone’s shoulders.
Ekse gents? Friendships are passive too. You can’t tell one nigga your life updates and expect the whole squad to magically know what’s happening. If something big is going on in your life and you want the people you drink with, celebrate with, and struggle with to show up for you? Tell us all directly. Niggas move like we owe them attendance and emotional labour off second-hand information. I’m not doing “he told him to tell me” friendship politics. Communicate properly!
I don't care for nonchalance. Please point me to the lovers, the yearners, the poets, the men who send long paragraphs and the women who will send a long paragraph back, the triple texters, the gifters. Point me to the people who love love and are not afraid to show it.
Two People that are text all day everyday, sends good morning and good night messages and keep each others updates but are not in a relationship. What are they?
you can't teach CONSIDERATION. it’s either a person NATURALLY thinks about you and how something will affect your feelings, your comfort, your safety, your peace of mind, and your heart or they DON'T.
go ahead and just love your life. take pictures of everything. tell people you love them. talk to random strangers. do the things you're afraid of. own your life and make it the best story ever written!
sometimes you have to keep going, not because you feel inspired, but because the version of you waiting on the other side of this season deserves to meet someone who didn’t give up on them.
your relationship with discipline changes so much when you shift from doing things from love rather than shame. from 'i have to clean'- to realizing i deserve to have a clean home. from 'i need to work out'- to i deserve to have a healthy body. you deserve the best from yourself
as much as i love hard, i also let go. i will not allow you to drain me, confuse me, disappoint me, disrespect me, take from me without reciprocating, and still expect me to show up for you.
..some people, you love from a distance, and that's okay.