the greatest life hack is being delusionally optimistic.
believe your dreams are already accomplished. feel like they've already worked out. and start acting like it.
stop panicking, worrying, craving in desperation.
it's already yours.
God honors his favorites by crushing them, drops the whole insufferable wretched weight of purpose on their spines until they either snap into shape or snap entirely. the unburdened, those buoyant grinning vapid little phantoms drifting through their own lives without a single crushing thing to carry, they are forgotten
The most manipulative but effective thing I’ve ever done in my life was when I read an article about how children moderate their behavior to protect their self-identity, so if a child believes he’s smart, for example, he’ll intentionally study and try to do well to protect his image of himself.
Anyway, I would pull kids aside with behavioral issues at church and tell them, “David (obviously fake name), you’re such a kind person and such a good listener. I can see that in you. Thank you for always listening.” “Little Annie, thank you for taking such good care of the babies around you. You’re going to be such a good big sister. Can you be in charge of watching Sally?”
They would ALWAYS behave afterward. ALWAYS. Worked like a charm. Morally questionable because it wasn’t initially true, but I kind of willed it into existence. Tbf, I did think that they had that in them or I wouldn’t have tried.
Will publish longitudinal results of this method once my kid is old enough to report back.
Please pray about everything ! Your mood swings, your temper, your ego, your insecurities, your mindset, your self love, your emotional state, your environment, your relationships, your lack of motivation, your lack of execution, your attraction to bad ppl ! PRAY ABOUT IT ALL !
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
People don't like love. They like that glittery, flirty feeling. They don't love love. Love is sacrificial. Love is ferocious. It's not emotive. Our culture doesn't love love. It loves the idea of love. It wants the emotion without paying anything for it.
Bonnie Blue, que quedó embarazada tras haber tenido relaciones con cientos de hombres, sigue bebiendo alcohol y yendo de fiesta en los últimos meses de su embarazo.
Es probable que, poco después de que nazca el bebé, se active el programa de protección infantil
stop falling for the doomer shit.
life is f**king incredible. cows turn grass into ribeyes, trees turn sunlight into oxygen, fruits and coconuts, sex makes new life, and dogs exist.
we get to do literally anything we want in life, fall in love with someone that was a total stranger, and create new life forms with them from having sex.
magic is real, love always finds a way, you get what you deserve in life. everything works out, always.
when women are comfortable, women never stop talking and talk about every little details like oh look at this little rock i found, i saw a cloud with this shape etc etc. As a man, you should realise you won at life if your woman is like that lol