in the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
People with high standards are skilled at detachment and cut people off at the slightest sign of disrespect.they donโt tolerate disrespect, not even as a joke.
Respectfully, I do not go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
I love being the kind of woman you donโt come across twice. Not because of how I look, but because of how I love, how I think, and how I move. In a world full of temporary energy, I am intentional. Solid. Rare.
Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
never teach a man how to be your man. donโt ask him for anything. not a date. not flowers. not clingy texts. not morning calls. not time. not affection. when a man truly wants you, he moves different on his own. life is too short to be waiting for someone to ACT right!
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
when people donโt consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. thereโs actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.