If my date asked me to get tested before we had sex, I wouldn't be offended. I'd be very impressed. To me, asking someone to get tested doesn't suggest you have a negative opinion of them. It indicates that you're sensible, cautious and proactive about sexual health.
Who would have thought?Boys from Dandora, Majengo, Isiolo, and Nanyuki will performing at a sold-out O2 Arena in London tonight! Dreams do come true ❤️🇰🇪🥹
Young man:
The rainy season has begun, the ground is wet, it's only natural you'll want to dig the ground. But in all your digging, remember to put your seeds, only in good virgin soil. Avoid bare soil or over tilled soil
This post isn't about farming
Learn OR perish!!!
We are witnessing the rise of a generation of women who struggle with the most fundamental aspects of home management—women who, even after months or years of living with a man, cannot decide what will be eaten in their own home.
Our mothers planned meals with precision, sometimes weeks or even months in advance. They understood the art of preparation, the discipline of foresight. A goat bought in February was not just a purchase—it was a long-term plan, a future delicacy that would be served with pride in December. Food was never an afterthought; it was a structured, intentional decision.
But today? Hawa, hata kujua supper ya leo ni shida. You come home after a long day—after hustling, paying bills, securing a future—only to be met with a blank stare and the dreaded question: “Tunakula nini?” And mind you, they have money. It’s not about lack; it’s about an absence of responsibility, an erosion of initiative.
Beyond the kitchen, the situation worsens. Cleanliness—once a basic expectation—is now a debatable topic. Many of the same women who curate perfect aesthetics for social media live in spaces that would shock you. Unmade beds, piled-up dishes, cluttered rooms—yet they’ll still post about “soft life.” And the most alarming part? If you dare to point it out, even gently, you’re met with hostility. Conversations that should lead to self-improvement turn into arguments. Something as simple as cleaning a home, washing clothes, or tidying up is now framed as oppression. Then, when things fall apart, they wonder why they are being left.
It’s a contradiction of expectations. They want men who provide, protect, and lead, just like our fathers did. But they themselves are nowhere close to the women our mothers were. And when you highlight this, they recoil in offense, claiming, “We are not our mothers.” But I can’t help but ask—are you not proud of your mothers? Because if you can compare men to their fathers, why do you resist being measured against the women who raised you?
We now have a generation that has lost even the most basic instinct to make a decision and stand by it. A generation that confuses convenience with progress, that believes avoidance is the same as independence. And in the end, homes are crumbling—not because of external pressures, but because the foundational roles that once held them together are now treated as outdated burdens instead of responsibilities worth embracing.