A real sign of healing is when you stop taking everything personally. You begin to see that people act from their own patterns, their own wounds, their own stories. Their behavior is about them, not you. And the moment you understand that, life feels lighter.
KENDRICK LAMAR SAID:
"I BELIEVE THE REAL SECRET TO SUCCESS IS THE ABILITY TO FAIL, TO LOSE, AND TO FEEL LIKE QUITTING-YET STILL HOLD ON TO THE PASSION, HUNGER, AND DESIRE TO OVERCOME ALL THREE."
this is sick as hell. how do you just up & leave after 30 years of growing together & going through life together? all that history, 3 kids with each other, both of y’all are 58 years old💀 why call it quits now? even more sick that Lavar went above & beyond to support Tina after she had her stroke many years ago, but now that Lavar’s dealing with some health issues Tina decides to look for greener grass. shame on her. it’s a cold world.
If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
Human approval is unstable. Someone may praise you today and criticize you tomorrow, so it's wiser to anchor your life in deeper principles than in other people's opinions.