The $weet One

Building D'FANCYS | Redefining Handmade Shoes. Instagram @dfancys_ ... I curate stunning pieces too. Instagram @getfancyy

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Experience the epitome of elegance with D'FANCYS.
Every footwear style is designed to accompany you on every journey and season.
Discover breathtaking footwear styles for men and women that will leave a good unforgettable impression.
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[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

For a country that gives me nothing, it still manages to take so much from me every single day.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

1 hour to learn. Another hour lost scrolling through countless kidnapping stories online.

Mentally, I’m barely functioning at full capacity, yet I still have to stay online because, just maybe, someone might place an order for shoes.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

My tummy feels extra bloated, I look puffy, tired almost like I'm carrying a whole pregnancy.
Once it's over, my tummy & waist snatches again, skin clears, mood resets.
And this is just the physical changes.
Hormones are hard to explain unless you’re living it.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

It's amazing what women body go through every time.
Few days before period I get bloated and put on some weight cox of the increase in appetite.
The moment it arrives, everything flips. I can barely look at food let alone eat it.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

For someone who gets overwhelmed and distracted easily when chasing their goals, creating a monthly routine of things to achieve has been one of the most helpful things for me.

Progress feels a lot easier when things are broken into smaller bits to do.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Need a soft, chubby woman to rest my head on her full, soft bossom even if it's just for a minute. 😤

There's a quiet kind of peace that comes with their presence, a calm you can't explain. 🖤

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Next thing, someone shouts your name: "Gas has finished!" and just like that, you're distracted and you're back to cussing out the government for the 3,064th time today instead of sending that simple hello.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Adulthood will have you pausing, hand on your chin quietly thinking "hmmm who should I reach out to today"

Then it hits you...

"I haven’t heard from this friend in a while let me send a hello"

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

And the shortcuts you hoped for? Most times, they don’t come.

The phase is clearing out dependence, illusion, & urgency.

So when the ease finally comes, it doesn’t feel rushed or forced.

It feels aligned. Natural. Effortless. Almost Unreal.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

The trickiest part about manifesting ease:

Things don’t fall into place immediately.
Sometimes, they fall apart first.

People/ things you once relied on, that you saw as “saviors” may disappear.

Situations can feel like they’re getting worse, not better.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Ease is as important as luck.
May your help come freely and sofly, not from places, that demand desperation before it comes.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

The moment you learn to stay calm in situations that demand anger, you’ve already won.

Especially in a place like Nigeria, where everyone's blood is hot and frustration is part of the lifestyle.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Not being social but running your business on social media is a struggle.
Now, I have to think of what else to post aside from business and I end up still posting shoes.
The struggle, I don't recommend. 🙂‍↕️

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Before you know it, it feels like constant work with little return.

If the value is N500,000 so be it.
The right product will find the right buyer.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

One of the challenging parts of running a production business is conveying its value.

You create a design from scratch, bring it to life, run creative ideas on it, and start second-guessing its worth because of the economy. Not anymore.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Glad to have moved past that stage by letting go of designs that don't align with what I have for D’FANCYS.
Those pieces demand the most energy in a way I don't want to describe, yet you find yourself overconsidering the price.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

In awe of my level of creativity and imagination.
I pray the universe blesses me so much that I bring them to life.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Entrepreneurship in Nigeria is an extreme sport!

Too hard. Too demanding. Too financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically draining. The economic structure isn't favorable.

If I'm being honest? If you don't have solid support or backup, I don't recommend it.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

Ode to the Ideas I’ve killed, for I lack the means to get you fed.
So rest now, sweet visions, in shallow graves;
Maybe someday the rain will be kinder,
and the soil I’ve tilled with this long, hard labor
Will bloom with the ghosts I was forced to bury.

[The $weet One @Dunny_fancy]

The feminine urge to disappear from the noisy society, live close to a body of water and nature, feel soft, and create art.