For a relationship to really work, you gotta understand it’s two different people trying to build one future. Y’all didn’t grow up the same, don’t carry the same baggage, and you not always gonna see things eye to eye. That’s normal. What matters is how you handle it. Knowing how to talk without it turning into a blow up. Listening even when you irritated. Fixing the issue instead of keeping score. You can’t build nothing real if every disagreement turn into distance. It take maturity to grow together and not let emotions ruin what you’re trying to build.
i think I lost my spark. I talk less, I keep to myself, I've mastered distance. I'm not angry, I'm not bitter. I just don't have the energy to show up like I used to. Somewhere along the way, I slipped into this I don't care phase.
Call me weird, but this year I’m working on one thing and that’s staying quiet. I’m emotional, and when my feelings get hurt, I react too fast and too much. I’m learning that silence is powerful, peace is everything, and not everything deserves a reaction. Some things just aren’t worth it. So if you see me about to go on a rant this year… please remind me to chill
January: Perfume
February: Sneakers
March: An outing
April: Gold bracelet
May: Cook ware
June: Travel
July: Give back
August: A black sexy dress
September: Bedsheets
October: Massage & Spa
November: A new book
December: Scented candle & cake
Thank me later 🎉