That moment made me think differently about priority seats.
The 76-year-old man had a legitimate reason to need the seat.
So did the 27-year-old woman.
The difference was simple:
His struggle was visible. Hers wasn’t.
That’s why I think we should be careful about judging people based on appearance.
But priority seats shouldn’t become meaningless either.
If someone genuinely needs the accommodation more, their need should generally take priority.
You can offer a seat without demanding someone’s medical history.
Sometimes the person you’re silently judging is dealing with something you cannot see.