Pregnancy wasn't 50/50.
Birth wasn't 50/50.
Breastfeeding wasn't 50/50.
The mental load isn't 50/50.
Postpartum recovery wasn't 50/50.
The sleepless nights weren't 50/50.
The physical changes weren't 50/50.
By the time the bills came I HAD ALREADY PAID
As a woman, before getting pregnant. Know the following as true:
1. Your height can reduce
2. You can lose or grow a tooth and develop sensitive gums.
3. Your nose gets bigger and in some cases never goes back to normal .
4. You can gain or lose weight massively.
5. Your hair grows thicker but can you lose your front hair .
6. Your brain adjusts to help bond with your baby (baby brain) hence the forgetfulness and it can remain that way.
7. Your voice can get deeper and hoarse
8. Your skin develops tags and melasma (dark patches)
9. Your feet can grow bigger and may never get back to normal
10. You can develop a strong sense of smell or lose it.
11. Your rib cage expands to accommodate the growing baby .
12. Your life is at risk and you’re never coming back the same way.
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His name is General Nhlanhla Mkhwanazi
Let's make him Trend
The most dangerous pandemic of this century may not be a virus.
It is the “One Child Pandemic.”
One child carrying the pressure of two parents, four grandparents, and an entire bloodline’s expectations.
One child growing up in silent homes instead of noisy childhoods.
No sibling fights.
No shared secrets.
No built-in best friend for life.
Just screens, perfection pressure, loneliness, and emotional isolation dressed up as “modern comfort.”
Earlier generations grew up with less money but more people.
Today’s generation grows up with more gadgets but fewer human bonds.
A single child becomes the family’s hope, retirement plan, emotional support system, and legacy all at once.
And when that child breaks mentally, the whole house collapses quietly.
Human beings were never designed to grow up emotionally alone.
A society survives not only on economy and technology.
It survives on cousins, siblings, chaos at dinner tables, shared responsibilities, and people who stay after the parents are gone.
The real tragedy is not declining birth rates.
It is declining human connection.
We are slowly creating generations who know how to use every device…
but do not know how to share grief, tolerate differences, protect relationships, or carry family together.
A crowded house was never poverty.
Sometimes, it was civilization itself.
No matter how good life gets man, I will never forget the excitement that came with receiving NSFAS book allowance for the first time 🥺😭👆❤️❤️❤️!!
The whole res just goes crazy!!!!!
I remember my entire res screaming "ingenile" and people abandoning what they were cooking.
Skuta ele skuta ka Uber Eats
The following day ele paper bag le plastic. Di iPhone, di weave Mo baneng.
I know earning a salary is nice and all but adulting is hard, I wish I could be a student again but this time ke sa ba le pressure yao graduatea.