Your problems, failures, and feelings matter far less to others than you think. People are wrapped up in their own lives. Complaining gets you pity at best, contempt at worst. Results are the only language the world respects, so produce or be ignored.
@Zarish5062 I love the men showing their true colors in the comments. Ladies if you ever come across these guys, RUN. 😭 I feel so bad for the people that live in their areas, they're genuinely not safe..
my brother-in-law spent three years subtly dropping hints at family dinners that my sister was "broken" because they hadn't been able to get pregnant.
he’d make passive-aggressive comments about her diet, her age, and how his family has "strong genes" so the issue obviously wasn't on his side.
he even convinced his mom to send my sister holistic fertility teas.
she finally forced him to go to a clinic and get a sperm analysis done.
the clinic called with the results on a Tuesday morning while he was in a work meeting, so she took the call.
the doctor told her he had a zero sperm count due to a childhood medical issue and it was physically impossible for him to ever conceive naturally.
she looked at the paperwork and realized the date on the file… he had actually gone to a different clinic and gotten this exact same diagnosis back in 2023, before they even got married.
this man literally let his entire family bully and humiliate his wife for three years for being "barren" just because he was too insecure to admit his own body didn't work.
she filed for divorce the same day.
I once had a boyfriend tell me that if I tried, I could force my period out in one day, because the uterus is a muscle. This is why men shouldn't be legislating women's reproductive health.
There’s this girl at my job, she’s pretty & stays to herself. She always says I remind her of her lil cousin. She said it again today and was like “well, she’s not little, she’s about to be 30.” I said how old are you? She gon say “everybody here is nosy, they been trying to figure out my age since I started “😂 I said girl what.. she won’t tell them her relationship status, age, nothing. She might have cracked the code.
I just cracked up bc girl you so committed to minding your own business. We work in healthcare. She refuses to get an exam here bc she doesn’t want them to know her bday 😭😭😭
Men don’t get physical pleasure from these lewd acts in public.
And YET they do it.
They do it because it’s about POWER.
The power to oppress a woman.
The power to humiliate a woman.
The power to objectify a woman.
We live in a sick country.
this girl on tiktok got EVERYTHING anybody would want in a man. she dated him for 4 years; perfect dates, reassurance, flowers every week, gifts, FIRST love and FIRST body.
still cheated on her.
"a golden retriever is still a dog" OH MY GODDD