you disrespect yourself every time you rekindle a relationship with someone who has humiliated you in any way, shape, or form. forgiveness is one thing but you have to have boundaries.
the idea of having tattoos making it harder to get a job is so bizarre bc when i see someone with a lot of tattoos i don't think "degenerate", i think "nice, a guy who schedules lots of appointments and shows up to them on time"