Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸

Nigerian. Catholic. Mobile, extraordinary baby girl pharmacist. Mommy. @uniport and @uniofHerts alumna. MSc Adv. Clin. Pharm. Pract.👩‍🎓 #YourMobilePharmacist.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

With the number of fire outbreaks in Nigeria and the relentless show of incompetence by the Nigerian fire service, one will think that by now every home, school, workplace and shops must have acquired fire extinguishers and installed fire doors to help mitigate these occurrences

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

If you behave badly long enough, people just let you have your way and do anything.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

I couldn't have said it better.

[Not a Good Jewish Girl✡️ @estherzelda0514]

This post is hilarious for what it implies but does not state.

He concluded that him doing nearly equal domestic tasks to his wife made his marriage worse. He does not disclose how it got worse or what caused it getting worse, only that he was forced to step up because of his wife's postpartum issues.

It is reasonable to conclude that what made the marriage worse is that he was not happy about doing these tasks, and viewed a near equal split as too much of a burden. He probably did not conceal this from his wife, who because of her medical issues, likely was not at all charitable (and rightly so) to his complaints.

This reminds me of the studies that show that men feel that women are equally contributing to a conversation if they talk 30% of the time, but if they talk 50% of the time, they are "dominating" it.

It also reminds me of the messy breakup I witnessed between two mutual friends. She told him she compromised so much for him, like forgoing lucrative overtime to go over to his mother's house on a weekly basis to help her with tasks her mobility issues complicated. His "compromise" was not cheating on her in a monogamous relationship, even when he "knew" a female coworker was into him.

Studies show that many men believe they do not need to put as much into a relationship as their female partner does. With that data in mind, the conclusion is that many men perceive equality to be a threat to the benefit they believe they are entitled to in a heterosexual relationship, and find the relationship itself "bad" the more benefit their female partner derives from it.

I don't think I need to tell reasonable people that judging your own relationship in such an adversarial manner was likely the actual cause of this man's dissatisfaction, not the house chores he was doing.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

I have some free enoxaparin 40mg for any patient in need in Calabar. Send me a DM if you need it and can’t afford it.

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

LISTEN TO THIS MAN WEY SABI

lots of unexplained deaths in Nigeria following surgeries is from blood clots formed in the legs that travel to the lungs and brain.

blood clots is deadly. The number 1 cause of Direct maternal mortality in the UK.

[Chief Designer @je_mc2]

With the right mindset on both sides, a romantic relationship can be in the honeymoon phase for years and years.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

@Adukesphere Knowing how working women operate in family settings, I am almost certain she would have spent a good percentage of that money on the house and the kids.

[marie @astou_jolie]

you don’t need thicker skin - you need safer environments.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

Most bullies and manipulators I've encountered are usually deeply insecure people, masking their fear of abandonment.
I don't even get angry at them anymore. What I feel is pity.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

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[Omiragua Teejay @Omiragua_Teejay]

"My vote won't change the country. Says 40 million people who stayed home."

[RIA OF IBADAN @RIAOFIBADAN]

Point of correction, Nigeria is not facing BANDITRY, what we are facing is TERRORISM.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

@GTgiftie She made the right decision. You don’t want to be married to a man who wanted someone else but settled for you. Your eyes will peel. Especially if the person he really wanted is still in the picture.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

If you’ve never worked a customer-facing role, you’d keep wondering why a lot of workplaces and airports keep putting signs reiterating proper treatment of their staff. You’d be thinking they’re doing too much.

[qynn in the backrooms🌹🇵🇸 @dovahqynn]

Worked in a call center. Health insurance. Guy calls in, he was disconnected from the last agent but gets me instead. Doesn’t understand he’s not talking to the same person as before. Ends up threatening to find me, rape me, and kill me. My manager is listening in. Tells me -

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

Or “Would you be ok with your male roommate expecting you to do all the chores because you work from home?”

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

Ask: “If you had a male friend who was squatting with you, would you expect to come home daily and make him a meal, clean the house and do laundry if he was home all day?”
Or
“Would you be ok with your male roommate expecting you to do all or most chores if you both had jobs?”

[Lekzy Red @Lekzy_r]

There are certain tweets you’ll see on this app, like and retweet and move on cos you think “this is normal, shouldn’t be argued”.. come back 2 hours later and it’s a whole bloody discourse.. you people genuinely think it’s ok for one partner to go to work, come back late and most likely tired to come cook for the other partner that has been home all day or got home earlier? Hm

[Dr Scarface📍🩺 @king_pearxe]

On the issue of childbearing

Please do it with a man who loves and respects you

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

I miss the days when NLC used to make things happen.

[Sleeping Beauty 🧚‍♀️👸 @ETHELMBA]

I’m wondering if they’d be a children’s day speech today. And if there is, what it’s going to be about when there are kids still in captivity.

[M-Jay🪅 @Jamesoflife]

Boys are not being raised and girls are paying dearly with their lives. Everyday it’s a new story of how a woman is the victim of male entitlement. Femicide is a global pandemic

[gbemisoke @Gbemisoke]

"You can't be a Christian and be a feminist" fam I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, including ignoring you and your attempt to use the Bible says to manipulate me.

[Uchen @Elen_net]

12 months of the national minimum wage is ₦840,000.
Average total cost to pack into a basic self-contain in a safe area is ₦1 million.
Even if you fast for 365 days, you still can’t afford shelter.
The math is tragic.