Heading back to Calgary for the first time in a few years. I’ll be there next month (4th-7th). Looking forward to exploring the city again and seeing what’s changed. Any must-visit spots or recommendations? 🥰
I went on a date and ordered a loaded lava burger.
He ordered his food, then casually told the waiter, “Cancel her burger. She won’t finish it.”
My burger.
Canceled.
Without my consent.
I just looked at him like, who gave you authority over my appetite?
He smiled like it was “care.” I saw it for what it was—control disguised as concern.
I told him, “Don’t manage what doesn’t belong to you.”
The waiter went silent.
Because at that table, it wasn’t about food anymore.
It was about a man trying to decide what I’m allowed to want.
This is just modern day prostitution repackaged as dating.
If a man refuses to pay for the date the moment sex is off the table, then he was never paying for a date, he was paying for sexual access.
That’s why so many men get angry the moment sex is off the table.
The idea of an OnlyFans creator/performer ending up in a happy relationship makes so many people so angry. If they are happy together and the relationship works, good for them.